it's a classic no-win situation and one she's put me in before.
she wanted to hear me tell her that i understand her point of view, her perspective and take on what's been happening lately with us. and that's what i want to do, is to write her an email(s) trying to tell her that very thing, trying to ?explain? what's happened, what transpired between us, how i felt, that i acknowledged her point of view - all of that.
here's the problem: if i do that now, she'll think i'm only doing it to get her to talk again and she won't believe that i really mean any of it. yet if i don't do it now (thinking that perhaps waiting till next week might be better) she'll see not getting an email from me as an indication that i really don't understand, really don't care.
no win.
as happened a couple years ago with my friend E, she pushed and demanded to know the answers to questions she asked about my relationship with my fuck buddy D. and, just as she did with E, when she got the answers that she asked for (but didn't really want), she used that as justification to pull back and in this case, cut off all contact. again, no win.
she wouldn't let me be with her. and i don't think i can be without her.
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